Mama Mia: Adopting Dog #2

Mia at home

Mia's journey began somewhere in Missouri when her owners dumped her without the puppies that she was still nursing. Sadly, this sort of thing happens often all over the country. For the Love of Labs pulled her from the shelter, had her properly vetted and spayed and placed her in the foster home of Melinda and Wahab.  She adjusted to life without her babies, crying sometimes and feeling very sad.  She was loved and had other dog friends to play with and soon came out of her depression and began to enjoy playing with them.

First photo of Mia

Before Mia was even listed as adoptable, Cathy, at For the Love of Labs, who placed Dudley with me two years ago, told me about her and I agreed to adopt her.  After talking to her foster mom, Melinda, I knew she was a great dog and trusted that she would be happy with Dudley and that Dudley would eventually adjust to sharing his family.  After all, they sent me Dudley and he is is terrific!

Wahab with Mia - ready for transport

Melinda saying good-bye to Mia

Two weeks ago, Wahab delivered Mia to the Alpha Dog Transport vehicle for the long drive to Virginia.  Melinda said good-bye at home and was very sad.

A word about the wonderful rescue volunteers, Jeff and Kelly O'Brien, who own Alpha Dog Transport .  Jeff and Kevin Almstrom drive the wonderfully appointed truck filled with dogs from Ohio to Missouri (where Dudley came from) and stop many places before ending in Maine. They take excellent care of the rescue dogs en route to their new homes and work very hard to make every new adoptive family feel special when they meet their dogs for the first time.
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Our first meeting (with Kevin)

My friend Deborah accompanied me on the 90-minute drive to receive Mia in a deserted Toys R Us parking lot in Haggerstown, MD.  Alpha Dog Transport took great care of Mia and they seemed very excited and happy for me, too.

On first glance Mia was larger than I imagined and the color of espresso with a very happy face and loads of energy.  We thanked Kevin and then headed for green grass and relief before getting in the car.  Deborah stroked Mia while she lay in her new comfy bed in the back seat on the drive home to Virginia. 

The introduction to Dudley happened 90 minutes later at a neutral place.  After much sniffing, they seemed comfortable walking together and home we went.

How play begins

Two weeks into it, all is well.  We've had a few little bumps here and there and Dudley has behaved like Eeyore for about half of the time.  Mia is so well-behaved and friendly and urges Dudley to move a little faster when we are on our walks.

Dudley on Day 2 - not thrilled

The adjustment for me has been much like having a second child.  I have spent a lot of time worrying about Dudley's feelings and giving him extra attention.  It's a little more complicated to go places and when they both put up a fuss on a walk, it takes some strength to get everyone cooperating again. Mia's bark is much more subdued than Dudley's (he barks like a hound) but together they make quite a racket.

I am very grateful to the volunteers at For the Love of Labs and Alpha Dog Transport and for foster parents Melinda and Wahab for saving Mia and taking good care of her.

Diary of my first two weeks - by Mia

Day 1: Phew that was a long time to ride in a truck.  I am so glad to be home but I am a bit confused.

Day 2:  I don't think Dudley is thrilled about me and everyone is calling him Napoleon.  I think he's mad because I am taller than he is (and 20 pounds heavier).

Day 3:  I eat my food fast or Dudley will eat it for me.  I make sure that if he gets to my bowl it is already empty.

Day 4:  Running around outside makes me tired and I like napping in my new bed and yes, I am a toy-hoarder.

Day 5:  I love all my new toys.  That is a good thing because Dudley ripped the head off of the bear I brought with me from Missouri.

Day 6:  Togetherness happens slowly when you come into the castle of a prince. 

Day 7:  Patience has paid off.  Today he let me help guard the back yard.

Day 8:  I am moving up in the world!  Now I get to help patrol the perimeter; squirrels and rabbits beware!

Day 9:  I love going on walks even though I am faster than Dudley.  I have learned to sit before crossing the street.

Day 10:  I sort of got in trouble because I unmade the bed and buried myself in Mom's covers and I had dirty feet.

Day 11:  Dudley and I really played for the first time.  We tumbled all over the house and growled and sounded fierce but nobody got hurt. 

Day 12:  Squirrels hide in the strangest places and I know I have seen them in the bird feeder.

Day 13:  Dudley has been hogging my bed whenever he can.  I learned to just crawl in with him.  The blanket came from Melinda and Wahab but I let him use it.

Day 14:  Pulling while I am on the leash is not allowed so I have to wear this collar that pinches me if I try to yank Mom's arm off when I see a SQUIRREL!  

It feels good to be home!






My other blogs about dogs:

Love at First Click - On finding and adopting Dudley
Dudley's first year
Dog Party - About losing a dog (Dallas)

  

Love at First Click: My Internet Best Friend

With a little help from Facebook, websites, and friends on the internet, I have a new love.  Losing Dallas just a month ago, I wasn't sure I wanted to look at dog adoptions right away -but  rather enjoy the chance to be away from home longer, not have to take walks in the rain and so on.  That lasted a few weeks.  I miss the companionship, I like walks in the rain, and I love having a dog.

Dudley grew up in Missouri and was rescued from a kill shelter by For the Love of Labs, an organization of dedicated volunteers that was started when someone saw a photo of a yellow lab that was to be euthanized at a high kill shelter the next day.  The lab was taken off death row, given a forever home and a new life and the organization was born.  Based in Connecticut, they have volunteers nationwide.  Their rescues are listed on PetFinder.

From a dedicated For the Love of Labs volunteer, Michelle, I received photos and descriptions that included Dudley.  Immediately I likened this dog search by internet to dating and job hunting using the same vehicle; they all involved resume-sharing, exchanging likes and dislikes, unrealistic expectations, photos that might do more harm than good, and first meetings that could be disastrous.

After completing the application, I quickly heard from Cathy, the volunteer in Missouri who was overseeing his placement with a foster family and his ultimate adoption. Much like online dating, which I have tried and failed at, I was captured by one photo and description, but worried about the fit, the personality and the needs (this was, after all a male dog, not at all unlike male humans).  

I almost backed out when I saw a forlorn photo of him and I thought "if he isn't a happy dog, how can we be a match?"   Who wants to be the cheerleader all the time?  I've had that dating experience and there isn't much in it for the cheerleader.  What I hadn't considered is that this poor dog had been on death row, saved by volunteers and spent time in multiple homes since being dumped by his owner.  What did he have to look happy about?  Maybe what he needed was someone to love him.

Dudley checks out the pond

I meditated and prayed about it and waited for a sign.  Sure enough, I got more than one.  I was about to get a new best friend.

Rescue adoptions can involve home visits, a contribution to cover transport, shots and other expenses, and answering some serious questions about how you plan to care for a dog for the rest of its life (example:  "What happens to the dog if you move?").  Volunteers go to considerable time and expense to place these animals who encountered bad luck that wasn't their fault.  They are fostered and carefully described on the website, cared for, given medical treatment and determined to be ready for adoption  before they and their families are nurtured through the process.


Cathy gave me regular progress reports and arranged transport on the Alpha Dog Transport, a dog transport program that safely gets rescues from a temporary situation to their new families.  He was to ride from Missouri to Pennsylvania where I would meet him for the first time.  

I did what new moms-to-be do: I hoarded stuff.  Leashes, collars, a tag with name and address, food, treats, toys, a bed.   I found a used dog crate, knowing I probably would never use it for my already housebroken 2-3 year old boy.


Meeting the transport involved a 2.5 hour drive each way, arriving at 4 am.  Denise, another volunteer, kindly volunteered to wait at the pickup location starting at 3 am until I could arrive about 4 am.  What a dedicated volunteer!

In the parking lot of a gas station, I tried to get a good look at him - but it was 4 am!  I confirmed he was brown and very short and his whole body wiggled when he wagged his tail.  This was far better than any strange cyber date.  


Now that he's home, he is doing a lot of sleeping, trying out all the rugs and the cool temperatures of the wood and stone floors.  He has started sentry duty in the backyard, carefully marking all the spots, tolerating the much larger and more energetic black lab next door, and barking at a neighbor her sun hat and dark glasses as she approached the fence.  He's enjoyed his neighborhood walks and has met lots of dogs.  He is so good with other dogs, never aggressive or rude.  He has marked the 'hood and sniffed it to his little heart's content.  

He's learning to sit (this really means he is getting a lot of yummy freeze dried duck treats courtesy of my sister...he isn't getting the "sit" thing yet).  But when I ask him, leash in hand, if he wants to go for a walk, he wiggles every part of his body and barks!  It's great.  


I'm thrilled I have a companion.  He's just a really flexible guy who wants to live his life in the calm. I might be able to take some lessons from my new cyberdog.  He's certainly a match that was only possible because of the wonders of the internet and the willpower of a lot of dedicated volunteers.


If you are thinking of an adoption, please consider a dog who has been rescued.  They are ready to be loved, and the volunteers help ensure that the dogs are a good fit for you and your family.

Lucky the frog

Great Blue Heron above the pond

One of Dudley's new jobs is guarding the pond from the great blue heron who has been in the yard today, presumably with an eye on those juicy frogs that I liberated from the international market (see blog Lucky Frog Liberation) since he has already enjoyed the fish.  His other job is keeping the rabbits out of the garden.  Since we lost Dallas last month, several baby bunnies have arrived, getting ready to eat all of my flowers and vegetables. They will likely be moving to the other side of the fence now that Dudley is in charge.  


As with any relationship, Dudley and I have a lot to learn about love and trust and comfort with one another.  So far I think I've fared better with my cyberdog than internet matchmaking or job hunting via the internet.  


Resources:


For the Love of Labs
Next time a pet-loving friend has a birthday, or marks a special occasion, or you just feel like doing something nice, consider making a contribution in their honor.  For the Love of Labs could use the support, and your donation will go a long way toward helping a good dog find a loving forever home!

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